look for the good

Stop looking for reasons why something went wrong and start looking for the good. Sometimes things happen to get us to look at life differently. Just because a situation didn't turn out the way you wanted it to doesn't make it bad or wrong. Things happens also have some particular reason hide behind it..Open your mind and heart to the changes and see where you can benefit !!

Ask yourself are you cogent?

Cogent means a person having convincing abilities is a cogent person. Convincing abilities refers to satisfy the other person from you point of view about something. But a person can have the convincing only if he/she have a REASON. There must be a strong reason behind your point of view so that the other person don't have any second thought about your view point. A person with convincing skills can survive even more longer. There must be a question arises that convincing some according to own choice can be termed as forcing someone to be agree with you. But there is a main difference about the Reason. A reason is must to convince someone