Love yourself on your own terms..

 It took me a long time to realize that you can do everything right and still end up unhappy. You can say all of the right things, do exactly as you are told, follow in the footsteps of all the people who swore by their success and their strategy surrounding it, and you can still end up displaced – because you didn’t ever choose to simply listen to yourself. The best thing I ever did for myself was simply listen to what I actually wanted. I drowned out the guidelines, the advice, the “shoulds”.  And I messed up! I made mistakes that I’ll never forget. I hurt people I loved, and I got hurt. See, self discovery isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes, it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle.  But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It’ll push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like;

And when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love yourself on your own terms. You become the person you’ve always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that’s beautiful. Because when it comes down to it – life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding yourself within. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you.     

Secret of happiness

          Happiness is a must in life. But what on earth is happiness? Some people are happy when they've made money, while others are happy when they've found their true love... Evidently, 1000 people will have 1000 different definitions of happiness.. 
       We all know people who have a relatively easy and comfortable life, and yet are essentially unhappy. And people who have suffered a great deal but generally remain happy. Therefore, happiness is actually of one's own making...;
 If you have a positive attitude and are determined to find the little happiness of life, you are destined to be jolly...
   Secondly, happiness lies in the struggle to be happy. People sometimes go to extremes, and frantically pursue money, power, high social status, etc., which are all symbols of success-but never of happiness. Perhaps if they shifted their life's goal from ultimate success to unswerving efforts and to a confidence that they will be successful one day, they'd be surely much happier...

Never mind FAILURE

Failure is only a momentary,
It's a act temporary;
No Doubt It bends your mode,
But it can;t block your road;
 Even Success is not permanent,
You need your temperament;
 Your hope is your only golden ray,
That shows you, your hidden way;
   Don't cry'
   Never say die !!
Try to get up, Try to rise up;
 When you turn failure into success,
Then you will definitely get full access;
Never mind FAILURE;
  Your failure is the stepping-stone,
 which leads you to the ultimate milestone !!

Are you ready?

Don’t back off, move forward, you can do it.
One of the reason for not moving forward is that at times we look from afar and think we can’t reach there to attain success. Everything will look scary and unattainable from outside, but once you enter in you will start to pass hurdle after hurdle without getting tired and you will start enjoying making all possible effort and will definitely attain victory. Initially you may feel as if someone pushed you inside a lion’s den, or as if in a lonely planet all on your own, but don’t worry you will make it. Decide to enter the battle field and fight. You can win only if you are ready to fight.

To survive in this ruthless world

No matter how many times you fall rise up every time with more energy and enthusiasm;
No matter how hard the situations are never lose heart, just keep going till you reach your destination;
Always anticipate the problems around you;
Be ready to face challenges without fear;
Plan everything carefully and be ready to act sensibly to any unforeseen situations;
No matter how much embarrassment you face, just walk upright as if nothing happened;
No matter how much ever your foes try to pull you down and attack you emotionally, don’t panic, just stay focussed;
Nothing is impossible if you have the courage, determination and put in 100% of everything, which will give u success.
Remember life is once make a place for you in this busy world.

Confidence building is a life-long job

Confidence building is a life-long job.One has to have a constant watch and control on it.The first requisite is to dress impressively and keep yourself well groomed.Most people are negative and start with a belief that certain things cannot be done.A majority of people start with little or no confidence in their own capabilities.Hence,they do not create and live the life of their dreams.You should always expect success in whatever you aspire.You should overcome the expectation of majority,that they can not do most of the things.With realization of your own potential and confidence in your ability, you can not only build a better life for yourself ,but also a better world.

To understand all is to forgive all...

 Rejoice in the success, promotion, and good fortune of others..In doing so, you attract good fortune to yourself...Have compassion and understanding for those whose negative conditioning has made them difficult and unpleasant..The divine spark is within them, just as it is within everyone..To understand all is to forgive all...

If you are afraid of

If you are afraid of failures, give attention to success..
If you are afraid of sickness, dwell on perfect health..
If you are afraid of an accident, dwell on the guidance and protection of God..
If you are afraid of death, dwell on eternal life...

Something to learn

It is said that no one knows who can teach us a lesson & no matter where we are..just give a look around on an insect that will be the best example... an ant(a ideal for others) is so small in appearance but she never forgo(give up) till she achieve her goal...

We should also follow the ideal's theme that try try & try again till  you got success...

Effect of pressure

       Pressure can paralyze you if you are not prepared. Just as water gravitates to its own path, success gravitates to those who prepared.Weak effort get weak results...