Love yourself on your own terms..

 It took me a long time to realize that you can do everything right and still end up unhappy. You can say all of the right things, do exactly as you are told, follow in the footsteps of all the people who swore by their success and their strategy surrounding it, and you can still end up displaced – because you didn’t ever choose to simply listen to yourself. The best thing I ever did for myself was simply listen to what I actually wanted. I drowned out the guidelines, the advice, the “shoulds”.  And I messed up! I made mistakes that I’ll never forget. I hurt people I loved, and I got hurt. See, self discovery isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes, it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle.  But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It’ll push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like;

And when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love yourself on your own terms. You become the person you’ve always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that’s beautiful. Because when it comes down to it – life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding yourself within. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you.     

Imperfections like a candle 🔥

You are more than just a merely lit candle flame who is waiting to take it's last breath as it melts to death. 
You are more than that melting wax which still glows for others knowing that it will die.
You are more than the base where the candle resides, which helps it to stand knowing that the only gratitude it will receive is burns. 
You are more than hot silver blade scarring with which you draw and the image turn red. 
How can you being someone so perfect feel so insecure?
How can you be so loving but still hate your own guts?
How can you be so strong yet draw on your arms and watch the blood flow, yet be satisfied marking your imperfections ?
Your are not perfect. Your imperfections makes you human. 
You're the flame strong enough to make the world bright for the ones you love.
You're the wax with an iron heart who is melting but still standing strong.
You're more than the candle's base supporting a way to light the world.
You're beautiful human with your imperfections like a candle.
 It has its good as well as bad times. It shows us light in the dark and disappears leaving darkness in our hearts. But as we say, everyone has their own way of observing things;
You may compare yourself to the dying candle or the candle being a source of light. 
You can be your own voice, after all it's your choice..!!

Mind your inner peace ❤

Let’s go back from where we started;

Let’s go back from where we created differences;

What is the need to be so tensed or put pressure on our mind?

Just because of the fact that people will judge. They might have questions on you for what you’re choosing. If you are satisfied and at peace, nothing really matters. You know what you are doing and you are ready to face both good and bad consequences of it in life. So, just breathe and relax!

Everything will be sorted one day or the other. You can’t figure out things right now but you will be able to identify in future and may be that outcome will be better than what you’ve imagined but on right time. You will settle in all aspects of life but as it all goes don’t put stress on your mind the most essential part that can affect your physical as well as mental well being. Because you might gain all the things you want right now but you’ll lose peace for lifetime. There are countless benefits of inner peace.
For example:- A sense of inner happiness and bliss. 
Better concentration ability. 
More patience, tolerance and tact. 
Freedom from stress and anxieties, and many more.
  So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully and when there are some bad moments, remember that it will not last forever. The real peace resides only within YOU..!!

Take time for yourself..!!

Whether you stuck in a crowded train or just taking a sip of your favorite drink. 

Whether you're having a rough day or just in need of motivation to get out of bed.

Whether you're in middle of something important or just scrolling your feed to take a break from your typical routine.

Whatsoever you are doing right now, take a moment for yourself, just few minutes..

Take your time and think of all those little things that makes you happy and joyful..

Those long early morning walks you take because the weather was too good;

That favorite series you watched for the hundredth time because it leaves you with the same laughter every time you watch it;

The days you took off to go to a little trip for yourself that waited your visit for a long time;

Or the days you took off to just sit back doing nothing;

The extra long shower you took or the fresh air that caressed you after having a long day;

The nights you dossed off listening to the sound of rain hitting your window pane;

Buying yourself your favorite food or favorite drink when you had your tough time;

the last time you spent on reliving some of your childhood memories;

 All those little things always find its way to bring a smile on your face so effortlessly.

Take a break and do those kinds of things often just because you feel like or 

Some times for no reason at all. You deserve all these happiness and they make your soul vibrant. 

As I sat back and remembered all the little things that made me happier, I realised they aren't any little...!!  

Life is not a competition.. ⏳

Do What Makes You Happy...
Yeah! Stop here and read it again..;

People tends to look for a complicated solution to a problem, when most things are just plain straightforward. 
If you're not enjoying yourself at what you're doing, change it.
If you're still not enjoying, again change.
There is literally a ton of possibilities out there and it's a shame that most people just settle for comfort instead of enjoyment.
People tend to forget that life is a process. It is a long-term game.
Don't rush to it...
You can change and change again and still you've a long way ahead. Also, remember that Life is not a competition. 
The truth is most people don't even know what they're doing, why they're doing it and many more. 
You're just looking up to someone who is also clueless and it's almost hilarious yo think about it. Comparing yourself to others doesn't actually help with anything. Find the stuff that makes your soul sing & be your own uniquely beautiful self..!! 

WE Choose Not to BELIEVE !

Stop running after people with a hope to find that happiness, 
To find that cure for your loneliness, To fill that emptiness you feel inside everytime you're left alone in the night to contemplate your thoughts;
The thoughts that horrify you ,
Making you think if,
 Staying awake is a greater nightmare than falling asleep.
People don't have the cure to these, 
You & only you have the ability to cure yourself...
For if you make your mind that nothing can ever get better ,
Or thay sun will never shine again.
It won't,
But only for you..
Because the sun will shine, things are going to get better,
Except you won't see them until you removed those presupposed conceptions.
 Our pessimism, our thoughts control how we perceive things and sometimes, even if They Are There, We Choose Not To BELIEVE In Them.!!

My LifeLine ❤

When I was all alone..
Searching for a mate,
Almighty! Brings up a ray of endurance.
That’s the day to behold my real happiness;
Yeah! you made me realize,
You made me learn how to smile;
Gone are the days, when I lived alone..
It’s time to create unforgettable memories.
We’re the slice of the same DNA,
that makes us unique, flows in our veins.
Circumstances may change tomorrow,
But your precedence will remain selfsame..
The moment my eyes laid rest on you,
I knew I’d found my love so true.
My partner in crimes ?
or The key witness in convictions?
You’re My Heartbeat..!! 
That means the WORLD to me...!!

A glance at mother.. ❤

She is an AnGel in life,

Someone's mother ,sister or wife.

She goes beyond the trench of pain,

Withstanding scorching sun and rain.

A mother gives her neonate,

Tactic jewels to the starlets,

Her love is perpetually unconditional,

Her heart has no counsel.

Her amour is approved by God,

By his hand she conceived the mold.

Her love is salubrious,

It's the fruit that dine our essence.

There's nothing she can't handle!

She's the burning candle, widening lucent;

Pushing darkness away, inviting to be fulgent.

She's is a lioness, don't mess with her;

She'll not relent you If you're a prankster.

She always put herself at menace,

She's real not fake..

Value her, Love her,

She's your UNIVERSE..!!

Looking for happiness ??

Is it too slavish to be jubilant ??

Ever looked upon the reason ?

Happiness doesn't need to come from other people or from what's happening in your life. It's all about perspective and your own vibes. Nothing can stay same eternally. You may always have some grievance witihin you. There's always gonna be something that will not be perfect about your life, but you can choose not to focus on negative things and just realize that every little thing can bring joy to your life. Even if a random stranger smiles at you, if you got good grades on exams, if you see a friend after soo long. All these things can make you realize that you've soo many things that can be grateful for, just by paying attention of what's going around you.  You yourself can decide how you want to feel. Happiness comes within you, and no one else can give you that. It's not something that you can get from another person. It all depends on YOU, your mood lifts and your own vibes.. !!

Stay KIND !!

The world is already drowning in so much negativity...

Be the person they didn’t anticipate,

Yeah! It aids to BE KIND...!!

Stay kind because it is so easy to stay cruel and selfish today,

but To stay kind takes courage and firmness..

People can do anything to ruin the kindness in you,

But that should not fear you..;

Stay kind because from where you brew this kindness, you’ll make strength, determination &  much more.

Stay kind..

When times are smooth;

When times are prohibitive..;

Mould your kindness into a shape, which can’t be changed in any circumstance.

Paint it like your canvas.. Use it as your weapon..

Stay kind and let this kindness sparkle light on the good as well as on the bad.

Stay kind to those who are kind to you,

Especially, stay kind to the unkind because you might be the person who gives them a second thought on why they choose to be unkind.

Let the beauty of your kindness blossom,

Let the strangers walking by stop to admire it..

Stay kind... not because you think it’ll make the world a better place,

Stay kind because it’ll make your world a better place...!!