Face the Reality..!!

Being an extrovert, you've a lot of friends, your loving family or other contacts to get any work done over a phone call and it's all because of your way of interaction with them.
When you're happy, they'll will be with you till the celebrations.
On the other hand, during your hard times some of them will say they're just a call/text away whenever you need them. But how many of them actually mean it?
If you got your answer, that's what it's called the REALITY..! 

There are some people who care so much and give every bit of themselves to others, so they don’t have anything for themselves.
It's the same people who give away parts of themselves to make others feel accomplished.
It's the same people who show an unwavering strength as they help to lift others and make them feel better, but they're unable to figure out how to enforce that to self.
It’s the same people who hide tears behind the beautiful smile you don’t know about.
It’s the same people who feel lonely in a crowd.
It’s the same people who look at others in affection and wonder if they'll get the same response ever. 
And, if you are one of those people, let me make it very clear to you.
I know you’re getting tired of trying so hard daily..
I know it matters a lot to be the way you are and you won’t ever admit it.
But I want you to know, you aren’t like the rest of them. You should be proud of your own strength.
I want you to know one day being exactly as you are, will pay off.
So until then, Try, Try and Try again..
Keep trying...
Keep holding onto that little bit of faith you have. 
Be the real you..
Be the constant, not the variable.
There is something in you that is rare. Before you try to fix someone else's vibes make sure you're not killing your own.. Priorities do matters as long as you learn to keep yourself FIRST..!!

MAKE IT COUNT..!!

As we all know, most of us are taught to study and grow up in one direction or field of work, 
Would you like to be the jack of all trades or wants to master the same field only?
I just felt that it’s okay if one wants to try new things. 
It’s more than okay if one's not completely sure about what you are doing right now,
It’s totally fine if one wants to leave some things behind to venture into new possibilities. 
You want to switch from Arts to Science or vice versa? 
You want to drop your job for an NGO or make a living while travelling? 
You want to come out from your boring engineering lectures for your own desires ? 
AND SO ON..
There's a long lasting list at some point of time in everyone's life.
Make it work...
But, It won’t happen as fast as you expect it to be, 
Always keep your mind on it and do something, anything and follow it everyday that will keep it alive.
One should not waste this life in fear of losing instead lose that fear out that keeping you away from achieving it. 
There will be some moments when you might feel like you're nothing ,
 that's all because of the sadness that you had let in. 
But you don't have to give up because this life is very enormous and you're a part of this universe which has it's own ways of teaching. 
Keep in mind, things never stay the same forever. 
People will change..
Seasons will change..
Places will change..
Relations will change.. 
Priorities will change..
But YOU'RE determined..!!
Have a Look inside your soul for a while and you  will find your own ways. 
Because knowing YOURSELF is the greatest gift you could give to yourself..!!

Unlock Yourself in Lockdown !!

Days and dates have become non existent these days,
There are less wars and lesser cars on the roads,
Feeling like trapped in four corners?

Earlier, the time was running so fast according to everyone of us..

Now, when everything is paused, 
Does it really make a difference to you ?

 If it's a YES..!! Gear up and give a chance to yourself to make the best utilization of it..

 Right now, you've got a  golden chance to spend time with yourself

 Once the sparrow of TIME flew away, it won't come back again..

·        Start believing in the things you once had faith in, the things that kept you from falling apart back then.

·        Find the silver lining of the things that cloud your skies, rainbows from spilled paint, and constellations from scattered stars, etc

·        Learn to care a little less about everything else, and start looking after yourself. That you slowly let go, whilst learning to love yourself – step by step, little by little.

·        Surround yourself with people that comfort you. The ones that share their moments with you. The ones that never make you feel alone. 

·        Try to move out from the turmoil. That you wrench free from the chains of self-doubt and worry. That you relinquish hatred , jealousy and all other insalubrious feelings. 

·        Stop looking back onto things of the past. That you leave all rejection and disappointment behind, and move on...

I hope that you find joy in life before you get back to your hectic routine..

Hope your tears dry up before they leave your eyes,

Hope your heart remain full of laughter, and soul full of fire,

Hope you'll follow your passion, won't give up on hurdles what may come .

I hope finally, you'll learn to embrace your life for what it is so that you can feel proud of yourself that you Unlocked Yourself in this lockdown phase..!!

Fear of Losing..!!

I know we never want to lose our loved ones.. 

No one wants to be in a trauma of losing them... Agree?

Losing people who made you smile,
Losing people who treated you in a special manner, 
Losing people whom you can call anytime, 
Losing people whom you can trust, 
Losing people is unfair....

I wonder why good things end soon. When you've had the best but now you should settle for okay or whatever you have.
I wonder if things truly end or if they just keep living inside us,
Once we're attached to our own thoughts we realize that we're drowning into our negative perceptions.

One more loss...
One more struggle...
One more regret you've got to carry in the already so heavy load on your shoulders. But then, something drastic happens and you learn that sometimes life just knocked you down..
You can smell fear in the air, 
Slowly creeping into every corner. 
Spreading like disease.. 
Flourishing like hate, 
Ruling the mighty quarantine chambers..
But it's going to pass.. It's going to fade away..
NOW is the perfect time to believe in yourself...
TODAY is the day you stop holding yourself back.,
TODAY is the day you stop blaming yourself for everything...
NOW is the time to care for yourself and your loved ones.

Once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through. You won't be the same person who walked in..
With the new waves, you'll also discover a newer version of yourself.
With essence in kindness, you'll find the cure, 
And then, Everything is going to be awesome..!!

Paint your life with palette of Rainbow..!!

Ever wondered what if the "world" we have pictured is just a painting we have painted using our imagination and the limited colors on our palette? What if it is not what it is, rather it is what we "think" it is?

It's just a matter of our perception.

Do you know? We all see the same traffic signals, we all see the same trees and we all see the same buildings and people. But,

·         What about those flowers which only some of us see, and even fewer among us actually go and smell them?

·         What about those leaves that fall off the tree, that only some of us see, and even fewer actually feel sad to see them like that?

·         What about those beaches and seashores, where only some of us let our feet drown in the sand, and even fewer think about other end of the sea?

·         What about those kids who're suffering their childhood without education and how many of us visit them to offer any help?

These and countless other things make the "world" that you know.

So maybe,

When you feel like you don't like this world or it's ways, you'll have plethora of options to blame every situation. But have you actually looked for an positive aspect ever?

You just need to get a new palette and paint a new world and maybe, even add a rainbow to it? And now you can turn up the same earlier situation into seven new ways of living this beautiful life..

But whatever you do, make sure you are the painter, and no one else.

And yes, keep one person constant among all those variations; the one who will remind you that that's where you belong... and that's YOU only..!!

Do you know the Power of Silence?

Someone said "Silence is better than words/drama"

But why do we need to be silent? What's the use of being silent? What do we get from it? Let's elaborate the Power of Silence.. 

Be silent when the tide goes against you, 

Be silent when people's words become swords, 

Be silent when the tree of your life isn't bearing fruit, 

Be silent when your feelings and emotions start getting to you, 

Be silent when the other person just doesn't understand, 

Be silent when life throws hurdles like raindrops on you, 

Be silent when the taste in your mouth is bitter with betrayal, 

Be silent when jealousy creeps into your mind, 

Be silent when your anger is on the verge of erupting.. 

Just keep your head down and work, 

Just keep your ears shut and listen to the millions of voices inside your head, 

Be blind to other people's hatred, 

Because, that day your silence will be your strength.. 

Your results will be your answers.. 

The tree of your life will bear fruit.. 

And the sweet taste of happiness will linger on you.. 

Stay low, 

Speak out, when necessary.. 

Because at the end of the day, 

Some people won't understand the depth between the 26 letters of alphabet, 

But, it's all matters when you glow with happiness.. 

Moreover, you'll realise that there's much more to life, 

It's the power of listening.. 

Don't let others destroy you.. 

Cause Stardust runs in your veins, 

And stars didn't just blow up to see you waste it all.. 

Make the stars proud.. 

Be silent and unpredictable..!! 

Maison - where the life begins

Confused with the title?
Ever thought about the place where you spend all your lifetime ??
A perception that is different to everyone wandering on this planet currently.
To some, it's just a place to live,
To others, it's an individual who makes them feel like they belong somewhere in this world where they can look for their existence.
The world might be a series of unfortunate events.
But at the end of the day, you'll rush for seeking the comfort of your own bed.
Life is full of ups and downs, and you feel lost when you’re living your life day to day,
not planning anything out, and living the same routine every day.
You don’t feel like you belong somewhere, that sense of belonging to a person just isn’t there.
You then find a person that makes life worth it, like you finally belong somewhere,
But deep down inside you know that somewhere is not a physical place, however, it is a physical person.
Yeah! We're referring to "Home Sweet Home"..
Home becomes a person rather than the place you used to live in, or currently live at.
You finally get to experience that sense of belonging, and it does require time, maybe a couple days, maybe a couple months, or even a couple years,
However, that time will certainly come, for each and every single person.
The concept of belonging to a person is a feeling that everyone has to experience once in a lifetime,
It does come with a lot of pain, but it also comes with a lot of happiness down the road. It really feels like a blessing in disguise.
Once you're away, you'll experience the real meaning of  "Home is - where the HEART is" !!

Update yourself for the new beginning 👍

Everyone has a "New Year, New Me"  kind of persona when it comes to celebrate the end of the year and the beginning of a new one, but no one really acts upon it though, it's a complete bashfulness(shame).
It's a new year and you do have to reinvent yourself in ways never thought possible. Start by forgiving yourself for all the flaws in your life and then forgiving others. Once you feel content with yourself, that's when it's time for you to transform, make this new year's a chance to become a better version of yourself and actually put some efforts into it, otherwise you're going to  be dealing with same old issues, constantly, throughout the duration of your lifetime if nothing is done about it.
Make sure you push yourself to do things you never thought of doing before, because if you don't explore the world around you and are stuck in a bubble of your comfort, then you're not living your life.
Let this year, be the year you start working on your weak spots, instead of fortifying them.
Let this year, be the year you become who you ought to be, even if it means turning back and returning to square one.
Let this year, be the year you focus the limelight on the nicer parts. There will be days you just can't do life, but embrace even those moments. Don't let them blemish your zeal.
Make this new year's a day where you begin to explore yourself, learn to understand your feelings & your emotions and take control of every aspect of your life.

Be your own HERO 😎

When you look outside yourself, there will always be uncertainty and doubts. No matter who gives you the answer you are looking for, whether it be an esteemed doctor with a multiple PhD's in his field, a psychic or your closest ones; their answers will always come from their own experiences not yours. Start looking within and get to know yourself more to know what's right and what isn't for you. You're the only person destined for your own path and life, so start living it and make the decisions you've been so unsure of. The society doesn't know you more than you know yourself. Give yourself a chance and trust your instincts. I know the pressures you get from society, family, other people and your work can be threatening but don't settle for what they claim is best for you when they're not walking your path.
You'll create your own future - so dream big, know that anything is possible, love yourself, treat people with kindness, stay persistent and the next time when you walk outside - strut like the world is yours. Chin up ! You've got so much to create and bring into existence. Be your own driver for the race called LIFE. Stay positive and don't let anyone tell you how to live your life.. !!

Love yourself on your own terms..

 It took me a long time to realize that you can do everything right and still end up unhappy. You can say all of the right things, do exactly as you are told, follow in the footsteps of all the people who swore by their success and their strategy surrounding it, and you can still end up displaced – because you didn’t ever choose to simply listen to yourself. The best thing I ever did for myself was simply listen to what I actually wanted. I drowned out the guidelines, the advice, the “shoulds”.  And I messed up! I made mistakes that I’ll never forget. I hurt people I loved, and I got hurt. See, self discovery isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes, it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle.  But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It’ll push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like;

And when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love yourself on your own terms. You become the person you’ve always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that’s beautiful. Because when it comes down to it – life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding yourself within. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you.