Fear of Losing..!!

I know we never want to lose our loved ones.. 

No one wants to be in a trauma of losing them... Agree?

Losing people who made you smile,
Losing people who treated you in a special manner, 
Losing people whom you can call anytime, 
Losing people whom you can trust, 
Losing people is unfair....

I wonder why good things end soon. When you've had the best but now you should settle for okay or whatever you have.
I wonder if things truly end or if they just keep living inside us,
Once we're attached to our own thoughts we realize that we're drowning into our negative perceptions.

One more loss...
One more struggle...
One more regret you've got to carry in the already so heavy load on your shoulders. But then, something drastic happens and you learn that sometimes life just knocked you down..
You can smell fear in the air, 
Slowly creeping into every corner. 
Spreading like disease.. 
Flourishing like hate, 
Ruling the mighty quarantine chambers..
But it's going to pass.. It's going to fade away..
NOW is the perfect time to believe in yourself...
TODAY is the day you stop holding yourself back.,
TODAY is the day you stop blaming yourself for everything...
NOW is the time to care for yourself and your loved ones.

Once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through. You won't be the same person who walked in..
With the new waves, you'll also discover a newer version of yourself.
With essence in kindness, you'll find the cure, 
And then, Everything is going to be awesome..!!

Paint your life with palette of Rainbow..!!

Ever wondered what if the "world" we have pictured is just a painting we have painted using our imagination and the limited colors on our palette? What if it is not what it is, rather it is what we "think" it is?

It's just a matter of our perception.

Do you know? We all see the same traffic signals, we all see the same trees and we all see the same buildings and people. But,

·         What about those flowers which only some of us see, and even fewer among us actually go and smell them?

·         What about those leaves that fall off the tree, that only some of us see, and even fewer actually feel sad to see them like that?

·         What about those beaches and seashores, where only some of us let our feet drown in the sand, and even fewer think about other end of the sea?

·         What about those kids who're suffering their childhood without education and how many of us visit them to offer any help?

These and countless other things make the "world" that you know.

So maybe,

When you feel like you don't like this world or it's ways, you'll have plethora of options to blame every situation. But have you actually looked for an positive aspect ever?

You just need to get a new palette and paint a new world and maybe, even add a rainbow to it? And now you can turn up the same earlier situation into seven new ways of living this beautiful life..

But whatever you do, make sure you are the painter, and no one else.

And yes, keep one person constant among all those variations; the one who will remind you that that's where you belong... and that's YOU only..!!

Do you know the Power of Silence?

Someone said "Silence is better than words/drama"

But why do we need to be silent? What's the use of being silent? What do we get from it? Let's elaborate the Power of Silence.. 

Be silent when the tide goes against you, 

Be silent when people's words become swords, 

Be silent when the tree of your life isn't bearing fruit, 

Be silent when your feelings and emotions start getting to you, 

Be silent when the other person just doesn't understand, 

Be silent when life throws hurdles like raindrops on you, 

Be silent when the taste in your mouth is bitter with betrayal, 

Be silent when jealousy creeps into your mind, 

Be silent when your anger is on the verge of erupting.. 

Just keep your head down and work, 

Just keep your ears shut and listen to the millions of voices inside your head, 

Be blind to other people's hatred, 

Because, that day your silence will be your strength.. 

Your results will be your answers.. 

The tree of your life will bear fruit.. 

And the sweet taste of happiness will linger on you.. 

Stay low, 

Speak out, when necessary.. 

Because at the end of the day, 

Some people won't understand the depth between the 26 letters of alphabet, 

But, it's all matters when you glow with happiness.. 

Moreover, you'll realise that there's much more to life, 

It's the power of listening.. 

Don't let others destroy you.. 

Cause Stardust runs in your veins, 

And stars didn't just blow up to see you waste it all.. 

Make the stars proud.. 

Be silent and unpredictable..!! 

Maison - where the life begins

Confused with the title?
Ever thought about the place where you spend all your lifetime ??
A perception that is different to everyone wandering on this planet currently.
To some, it's just a place to live,
To others, it's an individual who makes them feel like they belong somewhere in this world where they can look for their existence.
The world might be a series of unfortunate events.
But at the end of the day, you'll rush for seeking the comfort of your own bed.
Life is full of ups and downs, and you feel lost when you’re living your life day to day,
not planning anything out, and living the same routine every day.
You don’t feel like you belong somewhere, that sense of belonging to a person just isn’t there.
You then find a person that makes life worth it, like you finally belong somewhere,
But deep down inside you know that somewhere is not a physical place, however, it is a physical person.
Yeah! We're referring to "Home Sweet Home"..
Home becomes a person rather than the place you used to live in, or currently live at.
You finally get to experience that sense of belonging, and it does require time, maybe a couple days, maybe a couple months, or even a couple years,
However, that time will certainly come, for each and every single person.
The concept of belonging to a person is a feeling that everyone has to experience once in a lifetime,
It does come with a lot of pain, but it also comes with a lot of happiness down the road. It really feels like a blessing in disguise.
Once you're away, you'll experience the real meaning of  "Home is - where the HEART is" !!

Update yourself for the new beginning 👍

Everyone has a "New Year, New Me"  kind of persona when it comes to celebrate the end of the year and the beginning of a new one, but no one really acts upon it though, it's a complete bashfulness(shame).
It's a new year and you do have to reinvent yourself in ways never thought possible. Start by forgiving yourself for all the flaws in your life and then forgiving others. Once you feel content with yourself, that's when it's time for you to transform, make this new year's a chance to become a better version of yourself and actually put some efforts into it, otherwise you're going to  be dealing with same old issues, constantly, throughout the duration of your lifetime if nothing is done about it.
Make sure you push yourself to do things you never thought of doing before, because if you don't explore the world around you and are stuck in a bubble of your comfort, then you're not living your life.
Let this year, be the year you start working on your weak spots, instead of fortifying them.
Let this year, be the year you become who you ought to be, even if it means turning back and returning to square one.
Let this year, be the year you focus the limelight on the nicer parts. There will be days you just can't do life, but embrace even those moments. Don't let them blemish your zeal.
Make this new year's a day where you begin to explore yourself, learn to understand your feelings & your emotions and take control of every aspect of your life.

Be your own HERO 😎

When you look outside yourself, there will always be uncertainty and doubts. No matter who gives you the answer you are looking for, whether it be an esteemed doctor with a multiple PhD's in his field, a psychic or your closest ones; their answers will always come from their own experiences not yours. Start looking within and get to know yourself more to know what's right and what isn't for you. You're the only person destined for your own path and life, so start living it and make the decisions you've been so unsure of. The society doesn't know you more than you know yourself. Give yourself a chance and trust your instincts. I know the pressures you get from society, family, other people and your work can be threatening but don't settle for what they claim is best for you when they're not walking your path.
You'll create your own future - so dream big, know that anything is possible, love yourself, treat people with kindness, stay persistent and the next time when you walk outside - strut like the world is yours. Chin up ! You've got so much to create and bring into existence. Be your own driver for the race called LIFE. Stay positive and don't let anyone tell you how to live your life.. !!

Love yourself on your own terms..

 It took me a long time to realize that you can do everything right and still end up unhappy. You can say all of the right things, do exactly as you are told, follow in the footsteps of all the people who swore by their success and their strategy surrounding it, and you can still end up displaced – because you didn’t ever choose to simply listen to yourself. The best thing I ever did for myself was simply listen to what I actually wanted. I drowned out the guidelines, the advice, the “shoulds”.  And I messed up! I made mistakes that I’ll never forget. I hurt people I loved, and I got hurt. See, self discovery isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes, it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle.  But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It’ll push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like;

And when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love yourself on your own terms. You become the person you’ve always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that’s beautiful. Because when it comes down to it – life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding yourself within. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you.     

Imperfections like a candle 🔥

You are more than just a merely lit candle flame who is waiting to take it's last breath as it melts to death. 
You are more than that melting wax which still glows for others knowing that it will die.
You are more than the base where the candle resides, which helps it to stand knowing that the only gratitude it will receive is burns. 
You are more than hot silver blade scarring with which you draw and the image turn red. 
How can you being someone so perfect feel so insecure?
How can you be so loving but still hate your own guts?
How can you be so strong yet draw on your arms and watch the blood flow, yet be satisfied marking your imperfections ?
Your are not perfect. Your imperfections makes you human. 
You're the flame strong enough to make the world bright for the ones you love.
You're the wax with an iron heart who is melting but still standing strong.
You're more than the candle's base supporting a way to light the world.
You're beautiful human with your imperfections like a candle.
 It has its good as well as bad times. It shows us light in the dark and disappears leaving darkness in our hearts. But as we say, everyone has their own way of observing things;
You may compare yourself to the dying candle or the candle being a source of light. 
You can be your own voice, after all it's your choice..!!

Mind your inner peace ❤

Let’s go back from where we started;

Let’s go back from where we created differences;

What is the need to be so tensed or put pressure on our mind?

Just because of the fact that people will judge. They might have questions on you for what you’re choosing. If you are satisfied and at peace, nothing really matters. You know what you are doing and you are ready to face both good and bad consequences of it in life. So, just breathe and relax!

Everything will be sorted one day or the other. You can’t figure out things right now but you will be able to identify in future and may be that outcome will be better than what you’ve imagined but on right time. You will settle in all aspects of life but as it all goes don’t put stress on your mind the most essential part that can affect your physical as well as mental well being. Because you might gain all the things you want right now but you’ll lose peace for lifetime. There are countless benefits of inner peace.
For example:- A sense of inner happiness and bliss. 
Better concentration ability. 
More patience, tolerance and tact. 
Freedom from stress and anxieties, and many more.
  So, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully and when there are some bad moments, remember that it will not last forever. The real peace resides only within YOU..!!

Take time for yourself..!!

Whether you stuck in a crowded train or just taking a sip of your favorite drink. 

Whether you're having a rough day or just in need of motivation to get out of bed.

Whether you're in middle of something important or just scrolling your feed to take a break from your typical routine.

Whatsoever you are doing right now, take a moment for yourself, just few minutes..

Take your time and think of all those little things that makes you happy and joyful..

Those long early morning walks you take because the weather was too good;

That favorite series you watched for the hundredth time because it leaves you with the same laughter every time you watch it;

The days you took off to go to a little trip for yourself that waited your visit for a long time;

Or the days you took off to just sit back doing nothing;

The extra long shower you took or the fresh air that caressed you after having a long day;

The nights you dossed off listening to the sound of rain hitting your window pane;

Buying yourself your favorite food or favorite drink when you had your tough time;

the last time you spent on reliving some of your childhood memories;

 All those little things always find its way to bring a smile on your face so effortlessly.

Take a break and do those kinds of things often just because you feel like or 

Some times for no reason at all. You deserve all these happiness and they make your soul vibrant. 

As I sat back and remembered all the little things that made me happier, I realised they aren't any little...!!